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Men and Women with Their Basic Differences



In the beginning, God created man and woman with their basic differences. The differences between man and woman are not just simply on gender.  Nowadays, man and woman become totally different in any aspect of life. They are different in communications, making decisions, and also different in organizing their stuff.


Men and women are different in their style of communication. Men usually talk straight to the main idea, but women talk about many things before they get to the main idea. In a conversation, men talk using direct sentences and woman talk using indirect sentences.  Men tend to get straight to the point, where women tend to talk about the subject without offending anyone. For women chatting is a way to release their burden.  For men talking is used to find a solution for their problem.
Men and women have different ways to make a decision for their life. In general, men make decision with more logic than emotion. On the other hand, women will consider a lot of factors about emotions, and feelings. Women avoid conflicts and want to keep conversations going.
Women are more organized and men are messier. Women know exactly where their stuff is and how to organize their items. Usually they have a lot of stuff that they use regularly, but they can organize what they have. Women’s room is always orderly because they more likely to define themselves by how it looks. Men like to define a room by what it will do, not how organized or clean it is.
Man and woman become totally different in any aspect of life in communications, taking decision and organizing stuff. Recognizing these differences is a way to understand each other as human being, especially in a relationship or in a family. They have different needs and different ways to expressing themselves. But, the more understanding differences, the more we realize that man and woman are equal in rights.

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